How would this make you feel? My husband came home from work tonight absolutely LIVID -?

I would be very upset. Sad and angry are probably better words. Especially if I was a good employee and got along with everyone. There's no excuse for people to drag someone's family into it, including pictures. Your husband has justified feelings here. Whoever did this is obviously very immature and and has no work and office ethic. It's a shame. I've never been in this situation and hopefully never will. Good luck to you and your family. Again I apologize that happened.